Please Help! I love him but he won't even look at me! Please help me win him back!!!?

Please, I really need your help... I am in love with a man, we had a relationship for 2 years, we lived together for a year, we planned on getting married and having kids.... But he had a serious problem with anger management, and I told him I won't marry him until he got the problem under control. He didn't do anything about it and it kept getting worse, so after one fight I kicked him out of the house. He moved into a hot singles area and I was really afraid of losing him, which of course made me act like a posessive idiot. Then I found his ad on a personals site and broke up with him... I said really harsh things and wouldn't even let him explain himself. It's been over a month and I love him so much and miss him more than I ever thought possible! I saw him this Saturday - 1st time since we broke up - I lost 20 lbs, got my teeth whitened, had my hair highlighted, and I had a really short skirt with fishnet stockings and stiletto boots. He wouldn't even look at me! Help, I need him!!